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Monthly Archives: February 2009

Being in finance, I often field a lot of questions about the various markets.  One of the most repetitive questions I’ve heard is, “what happens of the stocks keep going down?”

Well there are various answers to this.  When you enter the market, you often answer questions about how conservative or aggressive you want to be.  If you are conservative in nature, then you may want to cash out and minimize your loss, but the wise investor knows this isn’t the best action.  Cashing out now will minimize your current loss.  It will stop your value from going down further and you can choose to do something else with your money.  The problem is that the values will go back up.  It most likely will take 1-3 years to fully bounce back, but it most assuredly will happen.

There is a really great statement used for investing, if you need the money within the next 5 years, then the stock market is probably not for you.  A person came to me a few months ago saying that she had $5,000 and she needed $15,000.  She wanted to know how to invest quickly to get to that amount within 6 months.  If anybody knew the answer to that, they’d be a mega-millionaire just by selling that secret alone.  EVERYONE wants to get the most amount of return in the shortest amount of time.  Truth is that it can’t be done.  Not without gambling and risking the entire amount that you are investing.  I’m sure people have done it, but if they tried to do it again, they’d fail.  If they tried it again 100 times, they’d fail.

Another question I get is they want to start an on-line business with no start-up capital, only takes a minimal amount of time, and can replace their entire income so they can only work part-time from now on.  Yeah, well I love pigs and even if I super-glued their wings on, I’d never throw it out a window and ask it to fly.  Starting a company takes more time then working a normal job.  You end up living the job and must bootstrap for a period of time just to get by.  You often have to give up benefits, vacation, and your 401K until the company really takes off and can sustain that extra expense.  Even if you happen to have a fantastic idea, the work you need to do to get started is like working two jobs.

Also, never take shortcuts!!  Just seeing the amount of foreclosure, job losses, portfolio declines, lay-offs, etc. should be enough to get you really interested in how to become secure in your finances.  Adjustable rate mortgages, not diversifying your portfolio, and not saving money are just a few of the many mistakes we need to learn from.

Nobody is perfect, and even the best financiers in the country doesn’t make every right decision.  But making the correct choices in what you can control and starting from the bottom can be the best decision you’ve made.   Quick money making schemes, get rich quick decision making, and living outside your means are all factors that have put the country in the current financial crisis.  Learning from our mistakes won’t correct our wrongs, but can protect yourself from being a part of it.

Hundreds of thousands of people were laid-off this week.  I found myself being swallowed in the latest unwanted trends and forced to hit the curb trying to find another way to make a living.  Although I understand the business sense behind the decision, it still sucks…

So I’ve compiled a list of odd ball things that I’ve learned about myself and about being laid-off in general.

  1. Even though it tastes better, home brewed coffee isn’t free. Even the worst tasting things taste a lot better when they’re free.
  2. When my dog follows me when I get home from work, it’s cute.  When it’s the entire day, not so cute.
  3. I always thought nap time was hard to deal with at work. MUCH harder when your bed is in the room next to you.
  4. You find it more difficult to talk yourself out of opening a bottle of wine at 10am.
  5. You’re depressed when you realize sports aren’t on during the day.
  6. You respond to email immediately versus putting them on a “to be answered later when you feel like it” list.
  7. Getting dressed up means brushing your teeth.
  8. You start to notice small things around the house. Like furniture you had no idea you owned.
  9. When your wife gives you that rare look, she’s not wanting a quickie.  She just needs you to move to the other side of the couch so she could finish cleaning around you.
  10. You start to make money saving excuses, like not changing clothes to save on the water bill from doing laundry or eating all the food in the fridge so it doesn’t have to work so hard keeping it all cold.

In all seriousness, losing your job isn’t funny.  THANKFULLY I quickly found another position at BMC Software.  It was offered to me on the last day of my curent job.  It REALLY works out since I’ve been trying to find a way into that company since we decided to come to Houston in 2001.  When we look at everything now, I’m kind of coming out of this with a bonus and an extended vacation. So I can’t complain.

Something like 598,000 were laid off in January.  I’m just glad I didn’t have to meet those people in a parking lot somewhere.  That could have been one hell of a traffic jam to the unemployment office.

The statistics are scary.  Having such a lifestyle change is never easy for whatever level your position is.  Nobody seems safe and nobody is prepared.  If you happen to be in the same boat, I wish you the best and hope you have a similar outcome as myself and find something just as quick.

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